After one, two glasses or maybe a bottle of wine, and an unprecedented amount of episodes of Sex and the City. I finally realized that the wisdom of Carrie Bradshaw is life changing. Although the show is about a 30-something year old career driven woman roaming NYC with no commitments other than her 9-5 & regular order at the corner bar her outlook on relationships are the last things I should be looking too for advice, but honestly I kind of dig it. Its honest, not a painted picture of how love/ relationships should be but exactly how love/relationships are. Key lessons I've learned for Carrie herself. Her relationships are choppy but her life is glamorous and from her mistakes i've learned some valuable lessons. here are three important lessons i've learned as a 21 year old from miss Carrie Bradshaw herself.